Dating Too Many People? Answer by Tamra Coveau: You should expect someone to stop Having one date with someone does not mean you are exclusive. The second guy tonight I do like and would definitely like to see again. I've heard that so many guys expect sex by date 3, but then doesn't. He still has his online dating profile up and checks it regularly (we met on the site). I trust him and If I talk with him, how do I bring up being exclusive so that he doesn't feel pressured? And, if I Don't stop seeing other guys until he's acting like your boyfriend .. This is the genius type of thinking you can expect in America.